Khabib: My Father Wanted Me To Do Freestyle Wrestling Or Judo, I Wanted MMA

Khabib Nurmagomedov, who retired from the UFC undefeated with a record of twenty-nine wins and zero losses, sat down with Lex Fridman for a podcast episode. During the conversation, Khabib talked about how he found his way into mixed martial arts against his father’s wishes, a decision shaped by a single street fight he witnessed as a teenager.

Khabib explained that around 2002 or 2003, his father Abdulmanap kept him focused on freestyle wrestling, while training others in MMA and combat sambo himself. That changed after Khabib’s cousin, Abdurakhman, got into a conflict with a heavier, more accomplished wrestler at their gym. The two agreed to settle it outside after training.

“I remember it was raining heavily, a real downpour,” Khabib said. He expected his cousin to lose. “In my head, I was getting into a figh t,” he admitted, prepared to step in himself.

Instead, Abdurakhman went in, took the bigger man down, and locked in a triangle choke. “For the first time I saw with my own eyes how someone chokes another person with a triangle and they lose consciousness,” Khabib recalled.

That moment changed everything. “I came home and immediately told my father… I’m switching to combat Sambo,” Khabib said, adding that the wrestler his cousin beat “is not just anyone in the gym. He’s one of the best wrestlers, but he couldn’t do anything.” His father’s response was to compromise rather than relent: Khabib would continue wrestling but also begin training with him.

“I think most people don’t know this,” Khabib said. “My father wanted me to do freestyle wrestling or judo, but in my head, I already had this mixed style. I always wanted to compete where there are no rules, where I could fully use my skills.”

From there, his father took an unusual approach, entering him in every discipline available: judo, sambo, grappling, pankration and hand-to-hand competitions, often against Khabib’s own preferences.

“Father, why are you sending me there? This is not my sport,” Khabib remembered protesting after losing matches at a judo tournament. His father’s answer was that the exposure mattered more than the results.

“The more competition experience you have, the more relaxed and confident you’ll feel,” Khabib said, paraphrasing the lesson. “It builds up over time.”

Looking back, Khabib credited that early, varied grind, starting at fifteen, with preparing him for the biggest moments of his career, including his 2018 match against Conor McGregor in Las Vegas.

“This preparation, it started back then when I was fifteen,” he said. “It’s not like they give you a fig ht and you prepare for two months. Preparation starts long before you even step into the octagon.”